In recent months, there has been an increase in rape and defilement cases, sparking widespread concern and outrage.
Frequent reports of men, both young and old, being arrested or sentenced to jail terms for these heinous crimes, as seen in newspapers, digital platforms, radio and television, are a clear indication that the girl child is not safe.
The Malawi Police Service annual report of 2023 recorded 1,691 defilement cases, a decrease of about eight percent from the 1,836 cases recorded in 2022.
The same report shows that there were 2,387 recorded cases in 2021, representing a 23 percent decrease in 2022.
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This indicates a downward trend in such cases over the past three years. However, there is a strong possibility that the figure could rise sharply to over 2,000 by December this year if no action is taken.
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What is even more alarming is that, in some instances, the perpetrators are individuals entrusted with the care and protection of the victims, many of whom are younger than ten years old.
These individuals include family members such as grandfathers, uncles and stepfathers who are expected to provide love, support and safety to the girl child.
In other cases, the victims are girls between the ages of 14 and 18 who are lured by men pretending to be loving and caring, only to exploit and violate them.
While law enforcement and the judiciary have taken a firmer stance, apprehending and prosecuting the perpetrators, the role of parents in protecting their children from abuse cannot be overlooked.
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Parents have a critical role to play in shaping their children’s values and attitudes towards relationships and sexuality.
They must teach their children the importance of setting boundaries and provide the support and guidance needed to navigate the complexities of adolescence.
Today, there is a growing tendency to blame the victims of rape and defilement for their supposed reckless behaviour, such as dressing provocatively or attending late-night events where alcohol is available.
However, the primary responsibility for their safety and well-being lies with their parents.
It is the parents’ duty to ensure their children are adequately protected and educated about the risks and consequences of their actions.
Unfortunately, many parents are failing in this crucial role, leaving their children vulnerable to predatory men. Parents are not providing their children with adequate guidance or supervision.
They are too preoccupied with their own lives to pay attention to their children’s activities and whereabouts. As a result, children often make decisions that put them at risk of exploitation and harm.
Furthermore, the widespread availability of smartphones among young children in today’s digital age is deeply concerning.
You do not show love by giving smartphones to your 14-year-old secondary school children if you are unable to monitor their online activities.
Doing so exposes them to unfiltered content on platforms such as TikTok, Facebook and the wider internet, which they may later be tempted to explore.
Unchecked access to the digital world can have serious consequences for children. It can shape their thinking and influence their actions in ways that are detrimental to their social development.
This partly explains why some minors engage in alcohol abuse, while others display ‘adult-like’ behaviour in public spaces, making it difficult to identify them as minors.
Most of these cases are preventable. It is vital that non-governmental organisations, policymakers, the police and the Judiciary take action against parents whose negligence endangers their children’s well-being.
As we punish the perpetrators of defilement, parents must also be investigated and held accountable.
Where negligence is found, they should face the full force of the law. In addition, the legal system must ensure that victims have access to counselling and medical care to protect them from further harm.
In conclusion, the alarming rise in rape and defilement cases is a complex issue that requires a multifaceted approach.
It is a call to action for parents, the legal system and society as a whole. We must work together to combat sexual violence by addressing the root causes of these crimes.
Only through collective action can we create a safer and more protective environment for the girl child.
